7 Ways to be a More Calm & Confident Dad

Becoming a dad is one of the most important and rewarding things in life.

But, for many dads, fatherhood can be stressful and overwhelming at times. Dads are expected to be calm and confident with their children at all times, no matter what they face.

This blog post will provide seven tips on how to be more calm and confident with your children so that you can be the best dad possible.

1. Understand that fatherhood is a learning process.

You need to remember that being a dad isn’t an end goal.

Instead, it should be looked at as a lifelong journey of growth and learning with your children.

Remembering this will help you to stay calm in the face of adversity because you understand that being a parent does have its ups and downs but it will all work out.

When you approach parenting this way, self-confidence is sure to follow!

2. Don’t try to be perfect – you’ll make mistakes and that’s okay.

No one is perfect and fatherhood is no exception.

It is important to remember that fatherhood is a learning process. There will be times when you make mistakes and there will be times when your son or daughter test your patience.

But, as long as you are willing to learn from your mistakes and continue to grow as a father, you will be fine.

3. Be patient with yourself and your children.

One of the key traits of a calm and confident father is patience.

This means being patient with yourself as you learn the ropes of fatherhood and being patient with your children as they learn and grow.

Remember, Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither are good dads. It takes time, effort, and patience to become a great dad.

So, take a deep breath, relax, and be patient. Everything will work out in the end.

Plus, it’s a great way to lead by example and teach your child how to be patient.

4. Spend time with your children, even when you’re busy.

We all have a lot of things to do. Obligations at work. Chores around the house.

But it’s important to make sure you’re blocking off your calendar each day to spend quality time with your kids.

By prioritizing one-on-one time with your children, you’re letting them know how important they are to you. In turn, this will lead to happier, healthier relationships and a strong bond.

It will also give your child a sense of self-worth.

If work or travel keeps you away from home, then try using weekends or vacations to set aside some father/child bonding time together.

Remember, this one-on-one time can be anything your son or daughter wants. Playing, talking, reading, or just spending time together by going on a walk. The point is to have fun and do something that they enjoy.

5. Take time for yourself, even if it’s just 10 minutes each day.

One of the most important things you can do to make fatherhood easier is to take time for yourself.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s reading a book, watching some TV, or going out with friends; just remember to set aside time for yourself every single day so that you don’t become overwhelmed by everything going on in your life.

By doing this, you’ll be able to come home feeling refreshed and ready to face any challenges ahead of you as a father.

Remember, it’s okay to have a life and an identity outside of being a parent.

6. Communicate openly with your spouse about parenting challenges and solutions.

One of the best things you can do as a father is to communicate openly with your spouse about parenting challenges and solutions.

No one knows your kids and what works best for your family better than the two of you.

By working together, you can come up with strategies that work best for your children and help to minimize any stress or conflict between parents.

This will not only help you as a dad but help you as a husband.

If possible, try to attend parenting classes or workshops together so that you can continue learning and growing together as a team.

7. Seek out support from other fathers, either in-person or online.

No one can do fatherhood alone and it’s important to seek out support from other dads, either in-person or online.

This could be a dad’s group at your church, mosque, synagogue, temple, or community center.

It could also be a father’s group you join online via social media or an internet forum.

I personally am a member of Save Your Sons University, which is a great group of supportive men, many of whom have become friends.

The key is to find a group of dads that share your values and who will offer emotional support during the good times and the bad.


By following these seven tips, you’ll be well on your way to becoming a more calm and confident dad. Just remember to take things one step at a time and don’t try to do everything all at once!

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